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Dear Lady Gaga,
The more I learn about you, the worse it gets.
First, you allowed “Born This Way” to be played and performed without the line about supporting people regardless of their sexual and/or gender identities. This was especially ironic considering that this song was supposedly written as a “gay anthem.”
Then, there are all the times you have made transmisogynistic comments. Although I strongly believe that gender policing is unacceptable, I don’t think you have handled these situations appropriately, to say the least. You can’t combat transphobia with transmisogyny.
Now, my dashboard is full of posts about your recent performance in Australia, in which you used a wheelchair as part of your costume. As “Jesse Billauer, the founder of the quadriplegic advocacy group Life Rolls On,” rightfully said: ”I invite [Gaga] to learn more about the 5.6 million Americans who live with paralysis. They, like me, unfortunately, don’t use a wheelchair for shock value.”
Let’s not forget that time you equated feminism with man hating, as if loving men and being a feminist were mutually exclusive.
Because you are such a famous celebrity, your comments and actions are extremely significant. Each time you express transphobic, ableist, and anti-feminist sentiments, you are sending a message to the world. You are reinforcing the dominant ideologies which allow for the marginalization and oppression of the groups you claim to support. It seems that every time you take one step forward, you take two steps backwards.
P.S. You are not, and will never be, the face of the LGBTQ community. Please stop referring to us as “the gays.” I do not find it particularly endearing or complimentary; in fact, I find your comments to be rather trivializing and offensive.
Update: Lady Gaga’s recent performance was in Australia, not New Zealand. I apologize for the error.
For fuck sake, it’s a personal choice. I shave because I want to, it makes me feel better about myself and I find it more hygienic. If someone doesn’t want to do so it’s up to them. It doesn’t make them ugly, if they wash properly it won’t make them unclean. Some people feel better being natural, I don’t. Its Up to them. End of!!
this is pure BULLSHIT. it was only acceptable for women to have hair everywhere back in the prehistoric days, where being hairy was part of warming themselves in the caves.
Now women live in their perfect houses, with their heat, they live in the 21st century, and having hairy legs and armpits is disgusting and unacceptable.
Yes, i dont shave my legs regularly when i dont have to leave the house, but from the moment i go out, and as a SIGN OR RESPECT TO THE OTHER PEOPLE, i havent got ANY hair anywhere but my fucking scalp. Unless i intend to live in the streets.
Being hairy doesnt make you a feminist. It makes you a disgusting feminist.
I really dont know what else to say! Having hairy armpits is not feminism or Punk, its GROSS.
amen, penny! shaving your legs/armpits/pubes, wearing makeup, etc. is a personal choice! just like the clothes you wear, the furniture in your home, or the color you picked for your car. it’s an aesthetic choice and it doesn’t make you as a person. isn’t that what this whole controversy about women and beauty stems from in the first place? that physical and aesthetic “beauty” doesn’t reflect caliber of character and worth as a human being?